I know that if you don’t want to be disappointed, don’t have expectations. I also know that in order to create, you need to have expectations…as in, I expect this to be delivered to me.
I wanted discernment around this. I must admit that, after I put together this wonderful July offering that everyone told me I should be charging $1,000 for, that more people didn’t respond.
When I did the work around it (and you know I always go to myself) I uncovered the belief that I didn’t think I was giving enough because….I can NEVER give enough.
And if I own that belief, all energy that is playing with me either gets the value, or they respond to my belief with ” It’s too much ” or “I’m not getting enough” or a myriad of other responses that somehow match my belief that I Can Never Give Enough.
But it also brought up the disparity of the two beginning statements. And this is the clarity from the channel:
1) You must be in alignment with what you want ( I wasn’t)
2) You must be detached from the outcome. If you aren’t, you are holding subconsciously the expectation-or doubt-that it is not being created for you.
3) You have to know you deserve it ( If I can never give enough, that means I will never deserve what I am asking for)
Of course, it works the other way also. If you really AREN’T giving enough, then you know that and create the lack of receiving.)
This is huge discernment for me, and I can trace it to every subject of my life.
I know I am one of the most giving people I know, to you, my family and my friends. But I have to know that giving is enough.
I am enough.
And I want to give you this gift: YOU are enough.
Give the best of you through Love. That’s enough.
“When we focus on gratitude, the tide of disappointment goes out and the tide of love rushes in.”
– Kristin Armstrong