I want to discuss core belief #34: I have to sabotage what I want or need.


There are many different ways we sabotage our desires: 1) by not knowing what we want, 2) by not feeling we deserve to receive what we want, 3) by holding grudges, judgements, or anger, and 4) believing we have to give up ourselves–or others must give up themselves–so we can get what we want.


Number one creates a lack of electrical signal to the Universe that does not allow our desire to be summoned to us. Number two thwarts the whole process by sending out “I want it but I don’t deserve it so don’t bother sending it.” Number 3 holds us in the negative vibrations that are not a match to creating the desires. Number 4 creates a bedrock of guilt and enforces age-old teachings of self-lack and judgement, allowing resentment to become part of creation, and thus, thwart it.


If you really want to move out of these negative binding places, take yourself to the POWERFUL state of love and command exactly what you want, and the Universe’s partnership in that creation. I reiterate: POWERFUL. If you need to, come from the “I’m mad as hell and I’m not going to take it anymore,” place and then take that power into love and focus on what you want.


You are a powerful God. Create that way!



“The ego mind both professes its desire for love and does everything possible to repel it, or if it gets here anyway, to sabotage it. That is why dealing with issues like control, anger, and neediness is the most important work in preparing ourselves for love.”
-Marianne Willliamson